What’s it like to be a queer teen in rural Minnesota?

morris area gsa

Morris area GSA logo from their Facebook page

A little while back, I saw a post in the YA LGBT Books discussion group on Goodreads, asking folks to donate books to a fledgling Gay/Straight Alliance (GSA) in Morris, Minnesota.

I pretty much instantly responded. In addition to my passion for LGBT YA, I spent eighteen years as a social worker for LGBT youth in suburban Long Island. This goes back a few decades (I share with a bit of 40-something humility) and to a time when there were zero GSAs in existence in the community.

I remember when the first high school GSA was launched amid a great deal of trepidation and some sensationalism. Many schools my organization dealt with had the attitude: “Well, that’s fine for that district, but it could never happen here.” I’ll reign in my reminiscences so I can get to the main point of my post. Suffice it to say, there were a lot of battle stories, and it was tremendously gratifying to witness schools turning a corner in the new millennium and now GSAs being the norm in Long Island rather than the peculiarity.

Map from Sperling's Best Places to Live

Map from Sperling’s Best Places to Live

I had to Google Morris, Minnesota. I learned it’s a small city in the western part of the state, surrounded by dairy farms, and home to a great state university. It’s a long way from Minneapolis-St. Paul, and I gathered that growing up LGBT in Morris is a far cry from the experience of urban and suburban teens. At least in Long Island, teenagers were aware of, and in some cases could participate in the adjacent, diversified New York City LGBT community. There were ‘out’ politicians, the Harvey Milk High School–the first LGBT high school in the country, and a huge annual Pride Parade. Rural areas tend to be more socially, politically and religiously conservative, so I imagined that the need for support in Morris was huge.

I sent the GSA advisor copies of my two YA titles, and a few days later I got back a thank you note from one of the students in the group. It was one of the most kind and thoughtful notes I’ve ever received. I asked the student if I could share it on my website, not to brag about my donation, but because she articulates so well the importance of LGBT YA to teenagers. I understand that the GSA has received over 40 titles as a result of the Goodreads announcement, and they welcome more. After the letter, I’ll include links to the thread where you can see how to help with the campaign, which I hope you will.

 

Dear Andrew J. Peters,

I am writing as the representative for the Morris Area GSA, a fledgling GSA, which has been sponsored by our school board for less than a year. This letter is being written as an expression of deep gratitude for donating books containing queer characters.

As you probably already know, today’s media is barren of representation for queer peoples, especially where gender is concerned. In many of today’s fictional novels targeted for young adults, the story features a straight, cisgender couple. If there is [sic] are queer characters, they are commonly shoved off as a side character, and a painful stereotype; a white, gay male who is flamboyant and obsessed with fashion, beauty, etc. To read a book containing any queer characters, there is a specific genre (usually titled “Gay and Lesbian”), and the stories tend to [sic] dramatic misinterpretations of what it means to be a queer person; not to mention, most queer characters are simply “gay,” with few characters exploring concepts such as bisexual, and almost no books with a transgender/otherwise genderqueer character.

I, as a young queer person, frequently found myself feeling invalidated growing up. The age when you are learning who you are is a very impressionable time. My early developmental years were spent in an area where “queer” was never even a topic. The lack of representation of queer people is detrimental to queer children. I felt as if I was wrong because I didn’t fit in with what society expected of me. Some people who have never experienced this may say the lack of affirmation of who they are does not bother them. The truth is, many queer people try to force themselves to fit into roles they were assigned rather than let themselves be who they truly are simply because they never were taught it was okay.

That’s why what you’re doing is so wonderful. Our GSA is filled with young, queer people who struggle with their own identities, whether because of people within their own life, or they are just trying to figure out who they are. These books provide comforting, realistic characters whom we can relate to and even learn with. The inclusion of queer characters is a refreshing change of pace and a fantastic feeling of validation for those of us who never feel that way otherwise. It’s one of the best feelings to know that who you are is okay, and I thank you. Truly.

Sincerely,
Teresa Boyd

Secretary of the Morris Area GSA
And Morris Area GSA members

Thank you, Teresa for bravely making the GSA possible so that other queer students have a place to gather safely and support each other.

If you would like to get involved, check out the thread from YA LGBT Books on Goodreads. My thanks to Kaje Harper for letting me know about the cause!

#WorldIPDay #AmericaCreates

I’m participating in the #AmericaCreates campaign in celebration of World IP Day. World IP Day was created to raise awareness of the importance of intellectual property rights, which are invaluable to sustaining the work of artists, authors, musicians, inventors and many other innovators.

You may have to blow up the photo to read my list. It was easy for me to pick out favorites in most of the categories, but it’s always hard to pick just one of my favorite songs (I chose one by REM, which is my very favorite American rock band). Also tough to choose my favorite invention, so I went with something less serious, and more tasty.

Check out the photos and videos streaming through Twitter today!

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#HAHABT: Some thoughts on activism past and present, and writing diverse portrayals

Hop Against Homophobia, Bi- and Transphobia

[Edited 5/25: Thanks so much for visiting my blog during the Hop! My giveaway has ended and the winner is: H.B.! Check your e-mail. :)]

The Hop Against Homophobia and Bi- and Transphobia is on!

I’m taking part by writing a short blog post and sharing the list of participating writers/bloggers who you should visit. Each of us hosts a giveaway. Drop a comment below, and you’ll be entered to win my recent release Werecat: The Trilogy.

#HAHABT is a weeklong event (May 17th – May 24th) created by writers to join forces for the International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia. I’ve been participating since I found out about it in 2013.

A writer-led campaign to advance social justice for LGBTs? Yes, please!

I caught the social justice bug at student protests against Cornell University’s investments in Apartheid-era South Africa. I remember the rush of my first demonstration. As individuals, we had no influence on the university’s financial practices, let alone the situation in South Africa. Together, we were strong and filled with belief.

I joined Take Back the Night marches to eliminate violence against women. In the early 90s, I demonstrated to protest the first Gulf War. When I came out as gay, I marched to protest gay-bashings, religious condemnation, and government inaction on the AIDS crisis.

Activism has changed in the digital age. We take to Twitter, Facebook and online petitions instead of taking it to the steps of City Hall or stopping traffic on Main Street. An important, recent exception is the “Black Spring” to protest police brutality, which has called for traditional strategies of civil disobedience. But generally we communicate and organize in different ways.

I miss the real-life camaraderie and the homespun feel of old school social action. One of my fondest memories is when a group of friends was so energized to counter-protest a “pro-life” group targeting Planned Parenthood that we had an all-night party painting signs, talking politics, and of course tossing back a sizeable quantity of beer.

But a good case can made that technology has made activism more effective. Taking for instance the reaction to the state of Indiana’s regressive legislation to sanction religious bigotry, social media can be a powerful platform for change. The flood of memes (#boycottindiana) with personal testimonials on Facebook and Twitter created a tidal wave of social pressure. That nationwide phenomenon had impact on corporations and elected officials that I don’t believe would have happened through local demonstrations alone.

As a fantasy author, I don’t very often write explicitly about homophobia or transphobia in a modern context. I do think a lot about how fairly I portray sexuality, gender and “race.” One of my current manuscripts features a lesbian character for example who happens to look physically male and to express herself in a “masculine” way, and I puzzled for some time about what that would say to readers since she is the only lesbian in the story.

We need more diverse portrayals of LGBTs in books. I don’t claim to be the authority on how to do that well in every instance though my gut feeling is that it’s a good thing when writers question what we write and ask people who are representative of the characters we’re writing about for feedback.

I’ll stop there and look forward to your comments. Feel free to fill your red, plastic Dixie cup from my virtual keg while you’re here. Leave your e-mail address if you would like to enter a drawing for an e-copy of my latest book Werecat: The Trilogy. I will pick a winner through random.com on May 25th 12:00 AM EST.

And don’t forget to click below to check out some of the 100+ writers/bloggers who are participating in #HAHABT this year:

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Some of my favorite tweets from #OutWriters

OutWriters

It’s LGBT Pride month so you can expect things to be a little gayer than usual around here. 😉

Cleis Press, an independent queer publisher, launched the #OutWriters campaign on Twitter to “celebrate the importance of LGBT writing.” Sounded like a damn good idea to me. My publisher Bold Strokes Books has joined in, along with many LGBT/queer authors from the U.S. and beyond. It has inspired some awesome testimonials as well as a nice run of light-hearted humor and generalized frolic.

The idea is to tweet something about why you write LGBT fiction, or why it’s important to you. Here are some of my favorites so far this month.

And of course, here’s one of my own I like a lot.

“Atlantis Fandom Makes a Comeback”

There have been crickets chirping over here while I’ve been gearing up and now starting the semester, plus editing a new novel and lining up some guest posts for The Seventh Pleiade.

On that latter score, head over to speculative fiction blog Layers of Thought to check out my guest article: “Atlantis Fandom Makes a Comeback,” wherein I talk about the ebb and flow of interest in Atlantis and why this is the right time for Atlantis stories to make a big splash.

(hardee har har…sorry about that).